USC4.3
Examine healthy interpersonal skills and determine strategies to effectively develop new relationships and/or negotiate disagreements in relationships.
Indicators for this outcome
(a)

Compare qualities of healthy and unhealthy relationships and determine the connections of these relationships to a healthy mind, body, and spirit.

(b)

Describe and recommend healthy behaviours, including positive communication skills for getting along with others in play and competitive situations (e.g., an appreciation of silence as an opportunity to reflect and refrain from "jumping in", analyzing and criticizing ideas and not the people offering them).

(c)

Recognize how various factors, including peer pressure, communication strategies, and assumptions affect relationships.

(d)

Suggest alternatives when play is not enjoyable (e.g., join another play activity, negotiate changes to the play).

(e)

Determine healthy ways to relate to peers not in personal circle of friends (e.g., listen and ask questions, give compliments).

(f)

Reflect on personal behaviours that might influence others to feel included and those that may cause feelings of rejection.

(g)

Practise the ability to calm self and discuss how it is important to remain calm in disagreements.

(h)

Represent what disagreements look like, sound like, and feel like.

(i)

Recognize that disagreements are part of healthy and of unhealthy relationships.

(j)

Recognize and describe anger triggers for self and others (e.g., name calling, being reprimanded, broken promises).

(k)

Investigate how effectively/ineffectively negotiated disagreements affect relationships.

(l)

Examine how honouring and respecting other points of view, beliefs, and/or values does not mean one has to abandon one's own.

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R071038
All's Fair (Cree Version)
Tryouts for the Aboriginal Winter Games hockey team are taking place when a new student, an Inuit boy named Elue Wetaluk, comes to Wapos Bay. T-Bear feels threatened by the newcomer's athletic ability and becomes very competitive. Meanwhile, Talon befriends Elue's visiting cousin, Jordin Tootoo, and invites him to the trap line by dog sled. A snowstorm delays their return and T-Bear and Elue must put aside their differences to rescue Jordin and Talon.
Media and Formats : Video
Price : Free
free
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saskatchewancontent
fnmicontent
rovervideo
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R012416
Concentus Citizenship Education Resources. Grade 4: The Intentional & Explicit Teaching of Essential Citizenship Competencies
Students will extend their exploration of rules and societal order to the workings of the various governing systems in Saskatchewan, including First Nations and Métis governance and provincial governance structures. Students will begin to understand the impact of the differing levels of government and understand the connections between varying levels of responsibility.
Media and Formats : Document
Price : Free
free
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fnmicontent
Record posted/updated: January 25, 2019
R053202
Cliques?
These four segments in this program identify, through real-life examples, the meaning and effects, both good and bad, of cliques.
Cliques? It Feels Good to Belong - Finding their place in a particular social group is a primary concern of many children. Cliques are groups of friends, but not all groups of friends are cliques. Cliques may be formed in elementary school or in middle school. Sometimes cliques are made of kids who share a common interest and other times the kids in them want to be popular or want to belong.
Cliques? Good or Bad - Cliques can have both positive and negative effects on individuals and groups, too. This program explores how cliques can affect a student and an entire school.
Cliques? Excluding Others - This program shows that cliques leave some kids out on purpose and kids may act much differently than they did before they were part of the clique.
Cliques? One or More is Okay - Some students have diverse interests. In this segment, kids will come to understand that it's okay to have two different sets of friends to hang out with.
The pertinent scenarios in this program should be appealing to both male and female students. The discussion questions that are provided are thought-provoking and should foster good discussions.
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Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Price : $89.95
Record posted/updated: July 8, 2024
R053244
Raven Power
Raven identifies, through several scenarios, that the men and boys in the community take the women and girls for granted and show lack of respect for them. The women go on a week-long retreat, and only Jacob seems able to make coffee, cook meals and keep things running. Raven and Chief Big Sky negotiate to bring the women back, make everyone happier and strengthen the community. This is a humorous and inspiring video in which a young girl takes responsibility to do something about a problem in her community. Gender equity is treated in a clear and balanced manner.
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Media and Formats : Video
Price : Free
free
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rovervideo
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R054847
Words That Hurt
The video offers an introduction by two teen hosts and three true-to-life scenarios about young students who are hurt by words. One boy is called names because of his dyslexia; a girl is gossiped about because her mom lost her job; another girl is rejected by peers when she wants to join a basketball game. All three children improve their situations by speaking up, by being assertive and by asking a grown-up for help.
Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Topic : Bullying
Price : $189.00
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R046000
Time Out on Anger: Learning Self-Control
Through four age-appropriate vignettes, young students are shown the basics of anger management. Each vignette demonstrates non-violent ways to deal with anger such as taking deep breaths, counting to 10 and talking about feelings of anger. The video stresses that while it is acceptable to be angry, it is never acceptable to hit, yell or break things.
Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Price : $189.00
Record posted/updated: July 1, 2020
R070987
Character Series
This series offers guidance for young students in developing communication and conflict management skills. A teacher's guide for each video is available.
•  Communication Basics
•  Friendship Basics
Media and Formats : CD/DVD Video
Price : Free
free
Record posted/updated: November 29, 2021
R044434
Prevention in Motion: Preventing Abuse, Bullying and Harassment of Children and Youth
Tailored for adults, this resource clearly defines various types of abuse, neglect and harassment. It outlines indications of problems and their effects on children and youth. Readers will learn of the barriers and benefits to preventing violence and methods for proactively building safer relationships within schools and communities. Included are a table of contents and a bibliography of related resources.
Media and Formats : Book
Topic : Bullying Sexual Abuse and Exploitation
Price : $20.00
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R053200
Got Empathy?
Children will learn to understand the meaning of empathy and its importance in these four programs. Got Empathy? Do Something - How do you show empathy? How do you show you care? Students learn that empathy is more than a feeling and that true empathy comes from our actions.
Got Empathy? It's a Choice - Students learn that true empathy is when you are willing and able to put someone else's feelings and needs over your own.
Got Empathy? Show It - In this segment students learn ways in which empathy can be demonstrated and realized in a variety of different situations.
Got Empathy? What is it? Children need help in understanding what empathy is and why it's important. In this segment students will learn how to identify empathy when they see it. The main message is before you say or do something that might hurt someone else - imagine being that person and think about how you would feel.
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Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Price : $89.95
Record posted/updated: July 8, 2024
R071057
Five Ways to Stop a Bully
Bullies are everywhere, but that does not mean they should be tolerated. This program shows victims and bystanders how to stop a bully. Viewers are guided through five strategies: stay away, stand up, put on a brave face, talk one-on-one, and tell an adult. In each scenario, viewers see what happens when bullies are not stopped versus what happens when someone stands up to the bully. These effective strategies empower children to stop bullying and stay safe.
Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Topic : Bullying
Price : $189.00
Record posted/updated: July 15, 2020
R050289
Health & Wellness Grade 5. Student Edition(Canadian ed.)
This student resource focuses on 10 life skills that students need to become health literate, maintain and improve health, prevent disease and reduce health-related risk behaviours. Each of the seven chapters opens with questions developed to tap prior knowledge, clearly highlights the objectives, utilizes appealing visuals and graphics, offers activities and provides chapter reviews. The resource complements the Grade 4 curriculum in the areas of healthy eating, physical activity, conflict management, safety, relationships, stress management, decision making and designing and applying action plans. Some of the suggested activities link to other areas of study. Included are a table of contents, a glossary and an index.
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•  Health & Wellness Grade 5. Teacher's Edition
Media and Formats : Book
Topic : Sexual Abuse and Exploitation
Price : $76.33
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R071040
As Long as the River Flows
In this episode, T-Bear takes advantage of the All Chief's Conference to raise the issue of elder care. T-Bear's father encourages him to run for National Youth Council president. Talon's ideas to assist the elders of Wapos Bay become the core issues of the election campaign. Talon is jealous of T-Bear as he gets all the attention and does not give credit to Talon for his ideas.
Media and Formats : Video
Price : Free
free
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saskatchewancontent
fnmicontent
rovervideo
Record posted/updated: December 29, 2018
R071024
Angry?
This video contains six vignettes that promote responsibility and safe ways to negotiate disagreement and respond appropriately to feelings of anger. These include: Catch Your Anger, Just Walk Away, Talk About It, Relax and Take a Break, Stop and Think and Understanding Angry Feelings.
Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Price : $89.95
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R053199
Internet Bullies
These three programs teach students the meaning of cyber harassment, why it spells trouble, and how to protect themselves from being a victim.

Internet Bullies: What Is It? - For many kids, the Internet is an important part of their daily routine. Unfortunately, with the immediacy of the Internet, its anonymity and its easy accessibility, kids are using Instant Messaging, Blogs, e-mail, chat rooms and social networks to spread gossip and rumors to harass and embarrass their peers. In this program, students will come to understand that using the Internet for those purposes is actually bullying.

Internet Bullies: Emotions + Internet = Trouble - Today it's easy to hurt someone who's made you angry. You can do it anonymously on the internet. In this segment, students learn that once you put something out on the internet, there's no taking it back. The program demonstrates how strong emotions and the internet can spell trouble.

Internet Bullies: Keep Yourself Safe - Thousands of kids are targeted by bullies. This program demonstrates practical ways for students to protect themselves and restrict the opportunities others have of harassing them online.
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Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Topic : Bullying
Price : $89.95
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R050399
Health & Wellness Grade 4. Student Edition(Canadian ed.)
The student resource focuses on 10 life skills that students need to become health literature, maintain and improve health, prevent disease and reduce health-related risk behaviours. Each of the seven chapters opens with questions developed to tap prior knowledge, clearly highlights the objectives, utilizes appealing visuals and graphics, offers activities and provides lesson reviews. Some of the suggested activities link to other areas of study. Included are a table of contents, a glossary and an index.
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•  Health & Wellness Grade 4. Teacher's Resource Package
Media and Formats : Book
Price : $76.33
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R071062
Don't Stand By
Witnesses to bullying are just as guilty as the bullies themselves. Using the video-diary format, viewers follow four young students who witness bullying and do something about it. Students see four ways a bystander can stand up to a bully: stop a bully together, talk to the bully, be a friend and tell an adult. Because bystanders are clearly a part of the bullying problem, these peer intervention strategies can dramatically decrease the incidence of bullying.
Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Topic : Bullying
Price : $189.00
Record posted/updated: July 15, 2020
R070965
Bullying. A Handbook for Educators and Parents
Based on research conducted in Canada, the United States, the United Kingdom and Scandinavia, this professional resource from the Handbooks for Parents and Educators Series explores bullying within public schools. It provides insight into the short- and long-term effects that bullying can have on students, their families and teachers. Focusing on sexual bullying, homophobic bullying and bullying of students with disabilities, it offers insights on the social dynamics of the classroom, the hallways and the playground. Bullying: A Handbook for Educators and Parents provides guidance for teachers and parents/caregivers who are working together to prevent bullying in schools. Included are a table of contents, a glossary and an index.
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Media and Formats : Book
Topic : Bullying
Price : $43.00
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R071041
As Long as the River Flows (Cree Version)
In this episode, T-Bear takes advantage of the All Chief's Conference to raise the issue of elder care. T-Bear's father encourages him to run for National Youth Council president. Talon's ideas to assist the elders of Wapos Bay become the core issues of the election campaign. Talon is jealous of T-Bear as he gets all the attention and does not give credit to Talon for his ideas.
Media and Formats : Video
Price : Free
free
canadiancontent
saskatchewancontent
fnmicontent
rovervideo
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R071054
Help! I'm a Bully
Bullying is a learned behaviour that can be changed. In this program, the kids themselves discover their bullying behaviour and successfully change it. Three scenarios are enacted: Help, I Spread Humours; Help, I Leave People; and Help, I Thought It Was Funny. Viewers develop a real sense of the damage bullying causes to others and understand that it is not harmless fun.
Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Topic : Bullying
Price : $189.00
Record posted/updated: July 15, 2020
R053203
Everybody's Different
The episodes in this video focus on accepting differences, whether physical, cultural, appearance or abilities. Everybody's Different: We Look Different - In this program, students learn sometimes people can feel uncomfortable around others who have physical disabilities. Viewers learn everyone is different in some way and that we must learn to accept those differences. Everybody's Different: Respecting Differences in Others - In this program, students learn everyone has different abilities. Some people are better at some things and not so good at others and that's okay. Everybody's Different: We Like Different Things - Kids learn boys and girls can like to do the same things. The program stresses the importance of developing a respect and appreciation for people's differences. Everybody's Different: Different Cultures, Different Customs - This program demonstrates to students that other kids come from different cultures with different customs that are not the same as the ones they have in their own families.
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Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Price : $89.95
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R051969
Conflict Resolution. The Top Ten Starters and Stoppers
Through vignettes that feature young students, viewers are shown the 10 most common causes of conflict and ways to negotiate disagreement and diffuse the conflict before it escalates. Conflict Resolution emphasizes that the outcome of a conflict depends upon the choices made by those involved.
Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Price : $99.95
Record posted/updated: July 2, 2020
R071037
All's Fair
Tryouts for the Aboriginal Winter Games hockey team are taking place when a new student, an Inuit boy named Elue Wetaluk, comes to Wapos Bay. T-Bear feels threatened by the newcomer's athletic ability and becomes very competitive. Meanwhile, Talon befriends Elue's visiting cousin, Jordin Tootoo, and invites him to the trap line by dog sled. A snowstorm delays their return, and T-Bear and Elue must put aside their differences to rescue Jordin and Talon.
Media and Formats : Video
Price : Free
free
canadiancontent
saskatchewancontent
fnmicontent
rovervideo
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R071094
Slim Goodbody's Life Skills 101
Can We Be Friends? and What Should I Do? are from the Slim Goodbody's Life Skills 101 series. Illustrated with appealing photographs, both books include a table of contents, a glossary, a bibliography of books and websites and an index.
•  Can We Be Friends?: Buddy-Building Strategies
•  What Should I Do?: Making Good Decisions
Media and Formats : Book
Price : Free
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R043769
Enemy Pie
In this engaging picture book, a young boy hopes that the enemy pie that his father makes will help him to lose his worst enemy, Jeremy Ross. The delicious pie, however, ends up helping the boy to gain a new friend. With humour, Enemy Pie addresses the difficulties that young children commonly have in resolving conflict and developing positive relationships. Quirky pastel and coloured pencil illustrations enliven the easy-to-read text.
Media and Formats : Book
Price : $21.99
Record posted/updated: November 22, 2018
R071043
Are You a Bully?
Kids can be bullies and not even realize it. Viewers learn that bullies are not always the kids who hit or intimidate. The program encourages students to recognize bullying behaviour in themselves. Viewers are introduced to five different bullies including Mark who thinks that tripping others on the bus and being the tough kid in school is "cool," Abby who teases and taunts Lauren in dance class, and Nicky who didn't make the basketball team and consequently spreads rumours that Jimmy made the team only because his Dad knows the coach. Through discussion and activities, your students will clearly understand bullying behaviour and its effect on others.
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Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Topic : Bullying
Price : $189.00
Record posted/updated: July 1, 2020
R070976
Kelso in Action
This video is presented in two sections: one for the lower elementary level hosted by Kelso the frog and one for the upper elementary level hosted by a young teenager. Through short vignettes, children have the opportunity to see students solve everyday problems. The resource suggests possible choices for solving problems and offers helpful advice, such as the following: there are different ways to solve conflicts; when your first choice does not work, try something else; big problems need the attention of a trusted adult and not all conflicts can be resolved.
The final vignette gives viewers the opportunity to solve a problem on their own.
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Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Price : $99.95
Record posted/updated: July 8, 2024
R053198
Why Do Bullies Bully?
After watching these four programs, students will gain a better understanding of bullying and build a stronger foundation when dealing with bullies.
What is A Bully? What Bullies Do - What does a bully look like? What does a bully sound like? This program provides insight that helps students identify bullies and understand why and what they do.
What is A Bully? Why Kids Do It - Some may think that being angry, calling names, and pushing people around is a normal way to act. This program discusses how bullying makes the bully feel and how the victim feels, too.
What is A Bully? Funny or Mean - Through live-action, age-appropriate scenarios, viewers will come to understand why some kids are so aggressive, hurtful and mean to their classmates, teammates, friends and family members. Students will discover that there are a variety of reasons kids turn into bullies. Some may think that being angry, calling names, and pushing people around is a normal way to act.
What is A Bully? Don't Become One - Students will discover that there are a variety of reasons kids turn into bullies. Some bullies are looking for attention. Others may think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want. But most of the time, bullies are trying to make themselves feel more important.
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Media and Formats : CD/DVD
Topic : Bullying
Price : $89.95
Record posted/updated: July 8, 2024
R053615
Deepening the Discussion: Gender and Sexual Diversity
This document will assist individuals and communities to engage in meaningful discussions and actions to respond to the experiences, perspectives and needs of students and families who are gender and/or sexually diverse (GSD). It will: assist school divisions, central office personnel, administrators, educators, First Nations and Métis organizations and community partners to develop a deeper understanding of gender and sexual diversity; assist in understanding the unique educational, health and safety needs of staff, students and their families who self-identify as gender and/or sexually diverse; provide practical strategies, suggestions and frequently asked questions to support schools and communities as they work with students to anticipate and overcome challenges related to transphobia, homophobia and heterosexism; acknowledge the shared responsibility of ensuring that all students who identify as gender and/or sexually diverse have the same opportunities for safety, socialization and success in schools; assist educators in planning curricular-based instruction and assessment to meet the unique needs of gender and/or sexually diverse students; and assist school divisions and First Nations and Métis organizations to fulfill their ethical and professional responsibilities to provide safe, equitable and inclusive learning environments for all students regardless of their actual or perceived differences.
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Media and Formats : Document
Price : Free
free
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Record posted/updated: February 13, 2019